top of page
  • Writer's pictureALEXANDRA


I can’t believe it has already been ONE YEAR of being Mrs. Ryan Dempsey. The time has really flown by, but when I look back on the past year I can’t believe how much we have both accomplished, individually and together. Ryan and the band have played with Phil Lesh on a number of shows, they’ve had another successful year at their Tumble Down festival, and they’ve donated tens of thousands (maybe even hundreds of thousands?) of dollars to charities through the White Light Foundation. I relaunched Tour Wife Tour Life, found my passion in working with elementary school children, and most recently joined the team launching a brand new after-school program in Cambridge, Vermont. Together we have left Burlington, purchased our first home, travelled to Central and South America, Europe, Canada and more. I feel truly blessed to have such a kind, loving, hilarious, and crazy husband. I can’t wait to see what the next year holds for us, and the year after that, and so on. We decided to celebrate our first year by traveling to Aruba and recreating the best day of our lives in one of my favorite places in the world. Here are some of those special moments. Next year I think I will let him pick our celebration spot and I’m excited to see where we will end up ;).

After an amazing week we are going to continue the celebration later tonight at The Fillmore in Philadelphia for another segment of the Unbroken Train with Twiddle, Midnight North, and Phil Lesh and the Terrapin Family Band! What a great way to top it all off! I’ll be posting our Aruban adventures throughout the next two weeks so keep checking in for new updates!


Hey guys! My name is

Alexandra Dempsey, I am 31 years old and live in Stowe, Vermont.

I recently decided to start this blog to give you all a look into the life of a tour wife - the highs, the lows, and EVERYTHING in between!

My rock star husband, Ryan Dempsey

of Twiddle, stands by me every step

of the way as we journey on this whirlwind we like to call the "tour life."

Follow along on my travels, hear

stories from fellow tour wives, and

earn about some of my favorite things. Hope you enjoy and

thanks so much for reading!!

  • Facebook - Black Circle
  • Instagram - Black Circle
  • Pinterest - Black Circle
bottom of page